Its not easy to be a student . And it sucks to be a good student which is judged on whether s/he  listen to elders/mentors and whether his/her steps comply with society or academic institutions . They always try to make less error ,whether its on the answer sheets or dealing with people. They always try their best to respect others’ esteem which also would in return respect theirs. They play quite safe all the time in terms of money or dealing with situation. In most cases they never fail any tests or examination. But the fact is its not esay to be a good student. Good student see the world ,not as it is ,but as they are forced to see it.


While performing any activities , there is kind of feeling that I must get it right by hook or crook. Prevent mistakes and impress other. Everybody aspect them to do good and this as far as I am concerned is the flame that drive towards unhappiness. Then you start to have atychiphobia which leads to ostracism. I believe that’s a good reason why good student usually end up being a mediocre in the real world. A good student usually don’t have aim . Its either what their family want them to become or they are just blabbering not knowing what it really is . They have engineering and medical stuck in their mouth. They don’t know what they really want. All they care about is I got to get it right and safe. The fear of ostracism ( the fear of standing out, the fear of criticism, the fear of ridicule, and the fear of being an outcast ) prevents most people from seeking new/creative way to solve their problems.


 one must lose the feeling of being right all the time to live a creative life. Mistake are very crucial for students like us which paves our way to creative life and teaches us to be the better version of ourselves. For that ,one should learn to school oneself. You have to constantly educate yourself ,whether you’re in school or not. The term school and education don’t always over lap. Browse everything .Explore what you believe is crucial. Talking about mentors ,they fill others mind with their own beliefs to lead a successful life which on the other hand contradicts with many other mentors. For example compare these two proverbs ; “life begins at the end of comfort zone” and then “Too many people think about working harder rather than thinking about how to have more fun and enjoy this great gift of life”. You get lots of spirit to labour hard and then other come along . And you begin to think that I should enjoy my life traveling and doing what you love instead of running on the same rat race track . we often end up in dilemma-tic situation whether to vanish from this world until you have achieved a big so called success (in the form of invention or discoveries or reading a whole course book) or to get lost from this nasty world like Christopher McCandless in the book “into the wild”. Mentors usually say follow your passion and work hard for it and then Robert kiyosaki says “Passion is greedy ,purpose isn’t.” There is never ending discussion, its just how you respond to it. You got to learn to prioritize your goal, thoughts, need and everything. Things have changed now, Side projects and hobbies turns out to be more determining factors than your grades.